| Location | Lakes Entrance |
| Age | 9 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 19/03/1999 |
| Date of Death | 12/03/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,949 since 27/09/2009 |
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My beautiful boy Jay was born in bairnsdale hopital on march the 19th 1999, he was just 6lb/10oz.Jay is the second son to Geoff and myself and has five other siblings, Jordan 11 years (Jay's big brother by a whole of 12 and a half months)Maddison 9 years,Noah 7 years,Lilly 3 years and Mia 18 months.Jay was a beautiful baby,but he was such a sook, we fondly refered to this as emotionaly challenged!Jay never really grew out of this, but it did ease with age.He was a small little thing when he was born and that also remained the same in his short life, but that never really stopped him from having a go at most things and for a small boy he had a huge heart and voice! Jay loved life, he loved everything almost, he loved his family,friends, animals, christmas and the list could go on forever. Jay loved wrestling and we had planned to suprise him in july this year with tickets to raw in melbourne, we had the tickets since december and kept it a secret,he would of been over the moon and it still breaks my heart that he never knew. Jay also loved sports and computer games and was just a social butterfly who made every second of his life count.He had a great sence of humor and a wonderful personality everyone who knew Jay just loved him,even new people he would meet, he just had that something about him.Jay was just so special to us and not a day goes by that we are not greatful for the time we had,and angry for what we have lost.
in loving memory of
Jay Thomas Bottom (JAY JAY)
March 19th 1999 - March 12th 2009
hey precious, sorry i didnt get on yest, was a little overwhelmed. you know how much i love and miss you my little buddy, if i had just one wish it would be to bring you back home to us where you belong. missing you always jay thomas. your broken hearted mum.xxxxxxxx
Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett
"Happy Birthday Jay"
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?
Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.
Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.
The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.
No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Son of yours.
Dancing Butterfly - by Ros Roberts
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Dancing Butterfly...........
The beautiful butterfly came dancing by,
Then he flew way up into the clear blue sky.
He was dancing and he was wonderful and proud
This my darling was surely a sign that you were around.
His wings were made of pure white lace
He was flying free, he danced right past my face
His beauty was so clear for all of us to see
I know he was a wonderful gift from you to me.
Thank you sweet Angel for your gift of love
I know you sent it down from heaven above
A dancing butterfly to make me smile
To show your spirit lives on is so worthwhile ......
copyright© Rosalind Roberts .
★*•..• *★Here’s a Birthday greeting
Especially to show
How much you mean
Although you surely must know
That without a doubt
There’s no-one nicer than you
Or anyone dearer
To wish Happy Birthday to★*•..• *★
missing you more than ever mate, wish so much to have you here with us. we love you heaps but miss you so much. oxox
Don't Tell Me
Please don't tell me you know how I feel,
Unless you have lost your child too,
Please don't tell me my broken heart will heal,
Because that is just not true,
Please don't tell me my son is in a better place,
Though it is true, I want him here with me,
Don't tell me someday I'll hear his voice, see his face,
Beyond today I cannot see,
Don?t tell me it is time to move on,
Because I cannot,
Don?t tell me to face the fact he is gone,
Because denial is something I can't stop,
Don't tell me to be thankful for the time I had,
Because I wanted more,
Don't tell me when I am my old self you will be glad,
I'll never be as I was before,
What you can tell me is you will be here for me,
That you will listen when I talk of my child,
You can share with me my precious memories,
You can even cry with me for a while,
And please don't hesitate to say his name,
Because it is something I long to hear everyday,
Friend please realize that I can never be the same,
But if you stand by me, you may like the new person I become someday
The Loss of a Child
The moment that I knew you had died,
My heart split in two,
The one side filled with memories,
The other died with you.
I often lay awake at night,
When the world is fast asleep,
And take a walk down memory lane,
With tears upon my cheek.
Remembering you is easy,
I do it every day,
But missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.
I hold you tightly within my heart,
And there you will remain,
Life has gone on without you,
But it never will be the same.
For those who still have their children,
Treat them with tender care,
You will never know the emptiness,
As when you turn and they are not there
The Loss of a Child
The moment that I knew you had died,
My heart split in two,
The one side filled with memories,
The other died with you.
I often lay awake at night,
When the world is fast asleep,
And take a walk down memory lane,
With tears upon my cheek.
Remembering you is easy,
I do it every day,
But missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.
I hold you tightly within my heart,
And there you will remain,
Life has gone on without you,
But it never will be the same.
For those who still have their children,
Treat them with tender care,
You will never know the emptiness,
As when you turn and they are not there
The Prayer - Celine Dion
I pray you'll be our eyes, and watch us where we go.
And help us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer, when we lose our way
Lead us to a place, guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe
La luce che tu hai
I pray we'll find your light
Nel cuore restera
And hold it in our hearts.
A ricordaci che
When stars go out each night,
L'eterna stella sei
The light you have
I pray well find your light
Will be in the heart
And hold it in our hearts.
To remember us that
When stars go out each night,
You are eternal star nella mia preghiera
Let this be our prayer
Quanta fede che
When shadows fill our day
How much faith there's
Let this be our prayer
In my prayer
When shadows fill our day lead us to a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so well be safe sognamo un mondo senza pi violenza
Un mondo di giustizia e di speranza
Ognuno dia la mano al suo vicino
Simbolo di pace, di fratern
We dream a world without violence
A world of justice and faith.
Everyone gives the hand to his neighbours
Symbol of peace, of fraternity la forza che ci
We ask that life be kind
Il desiderio che
And watch us from above
Ognuno trovi amor
We hope each soul will find
Intorno e dentro
Another soul to love
The force his gives us
We ask that life be kind
Is wish that
And watch us from above
Everyone finds love
We hope each soul will find
Around and inside
Another soul to love let this be our prayer
Let this be our prayer, just like every child need to find a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so well be safe
Need to find a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so well be safe la fede che
Hai acceso in noi,
Sento che ci salv
It's the faith
You light in us
I feel it will save us .
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